Posted by The Love Birds at 13 August , 2009

 

 

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Posted by The Love Birds at 2 August , 2009

We connect to our world through our 5 senses (taste, smell, vision, touch and hearing).  But unfortunately, when it comes to sex, many couples forget to slow down, notice, and enjoy all of our senses.  Sensuality is defined as excessive devotion to sensual pleasure. Sounds nice, doesn’t it?  Sensuality is an important part of creating more passion in your relationship.  So, this month we wanted to give you a few ideas to help you begin to explore and enjoy sensuality with your partner:

1. Taste:  Try feeding each other chocolate, strawberries, etc., or using flavored products like Honey Dust Body Powder by Kama Sutra or flavored massage oils and lubricants to awaken your taste buds (warning: if it contains sugar, of any kind, keep it away from your genital area!  A bad infection definitely ruins the fun.). Or better yet, just enjoy the natural tastes of each other.
2. Smell: This definitely goes along with taste.  Focus on the smells of the strawberries, honey dust, etc., or on the natural smell of your partner.  You can also try using scented massage oils or candles.
3. Vision:  Create ambiance or romantic and sensual surroundings by dimming the lights, using candles, sprinkling rose petals on the bed, and/or wearing sexy lingerie.  Fun tip:  heighten your other senses by using a blind fold!
4. Touch:  The skin is an amazing sex organ.  Thus, how about giving each other a sensual massage?  When you touch your partner, focus on the texture, temperatures, and contours of your partner’s body.  What do you notice and feel?  To spice things up, try using other objects with different textures such as a feather, cotton ball, ice cube, rose petal, string of pearls, etc.
5. Hearing:  Put on some soft, romantic music in the background or just listen to each other’s sounds (their breathing or the sound of their voice whispering to you).

Again, this is just a sampling of ways you can begin to spice up your senses and ignite more passion in your relationship.  Now it’s your turn.  How do you awaken each other senses?  We would like to hear your comments.  We hope you have a great month and as always, wishing you more connection and passion!

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